"There seems to be a truth that we have to be able to able to accept whatever people throw at us with words or actions, and just learn to accept it. "However, I was taught that if you couldn't say something pleasant, don't say anything at all. "I think this 'accept whatever anyone says' is rubbish.It is just another way of telling people to accept whatever behaviour as OK. "So, if I come in and want to put poison in you drinking well, then it is OK. "BULLSHIT. You say NO! "And you say NO to people saying nasty or negative thing in your environment.

"There seems to be a truth that we have to be able to able to accept whatever people throw at us with words or actions, and just learn to accept it.
"However, I was taught that if you couldn't say something pleasant, don't say anything at all.
"I think this 'accept whatever anyone says' is rubbish.It is just another way of telling people to accept whatever behaviour as OK.
"So, if I come in and want to put poison in you drinking well, then it is OK.

"BULLSHIT. You say NO!
"And you say NO to people saying nasty or negative thing in your environment.